We Was Cute Once

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  1. geewits says:

    Isn’t it nice to have a sweetie pie for a husband? It took me three tries, but I finally found one. Our 7th anniversary is December 2nd. Have fun on your anniversary and pass my sympathies on to your husband on the loss of his grandmother.

  2. Emma in Canada says:

    That? Was a beautiful post. Your husband sounds fantastic. But he obviously came from good stock.

    He was very lucky to have all 4 grandparents for almost 37 years.

  3. Theresa says:

    Wow! That was an amazing post. I’m sorry to hear about your husband’s grandmother, but I do wish you both a happy anniversary. Yep, eating truffles in a hammock with your beloved sounds like a pretty good way to go.

  4. Star says:

    Yes you was (cute). Happy Anniversary. My condolenes for your loss. It is so often the caregiver who suffers becuase they out themselves last.

  5. Karen says:

    That was beautiful Jocelyn. As I read about the failing health of GGma and GGpa I was instantly reminded of my paternal grandparents. While, thankfully, neither was afflicted with alzheimer’s, it was so hard on my grampie when my nana passed that he seemed to just give up on life and he passed away just over a year later.

    I’m glad that you and Groom have such beautiful memories of their relationship and how it seems to be mirrored in that of you and your honey. Never take each other for granted and who nows, you might just make it to that hammock together.

    My condolences.

  6. Glamourpuss says:

    Happy anniversary, Jocelyn. You give me hope.


  7. Jazz says:

    Damn Joce, you’re not supposed to make me cry on a monday morning.

  8. furiousBall says:

    God Bless you two. I’m in a rough patch and not a big fan of love or people in love. But the truth is, this is what I need to see and hear, because if nothing else, I want my kids to believe that love is still out there.

  9. lime says:

    perhaps, being the literary type youare, you know of the myth of philemon and baucis. though being poor they welcomed and lavished hospitality upone the disguised zeus and hermes who rewarded them with the wish of their choice. after a moment of private conversation they came back asking that philemon woudl never have to live a day without his beloved baucis and baucis would be spared the agony of burying her philemon. they lived a full life and in their last moments embraced and turned into an oak tree and a linden tree with a fused trunk. seems fitting.

    my wishes for such a long and loving life for you and groomeo. my sincerest condolences to you all in the loss of ggma and special prayers for the comoft ggpa needs at this time.

  10. oreneta says:

    My grandmother had altzeimers when my grandfather died. We had to tell her that he had died over and over and endlessly over. It was heart rending every time.

    My deepest condolences, and congrats on the anniversary for you two! Truffle fridges rule.

  11. Franki says:

    If I weren’t such a cold hearted, recalcitrant curmudgeon, I would tell you what a fuzzy-wuzzy, heartwarming post this was.


  12. Lone Grey Squirrel says:

    This was a wonderfully beautiful post. I am sorry for your loss. I am moved deeply by your tale of love and devotion. I am glad you have such a wonderful husband. I am fascinated by your husband’s interest in raptors. You had my emotions going in every direction.

  13. Her Grace says:

    Oh. Oh my. I wasn’t expecting that today.

    Isn’t love remarkable? That it can persevere when all else is lost. Your story touched me deeply.

    Happy anniversary. That was a beautiful love letter to your groom.

  14. JohnnyC says:

    Yous is cute today too.

    This is another of your posts that pulls the tears to the fore. Give that hubby of yourn a hug for me…

  15. Jill says:

    Happy Anniversary. And may you have many more together.

  16. choochoo says:

    You was very cute. Damn right purty, you were. And you’re still cute. Cuty petooty, or however you spell that.

  17. Top cat says:

    Thank you for this beautiful, touching post jocelyn.

    Happy Anniversary

  18. Diana says:


    It’s not nice to make me blubber at work.

    My sorrow for GGpa. My warmest regards for GGma, who went like we’d all like to go.

    I wish we were all fortunate to have spouses like you, the GGs and me.

    The tears are forming at the thought of losing my beloved, so I’m going to have to stop. Sniffles I can cover, tear tracks are harder to explain away.

    What a lovely post.

    (You was sure was cute, yes indeedy. Happy Anniversary. Pass the damn kleenix. No, the big box.)

  19. SQT says:

    How is it each of your posts get better and better? Such excellence cannot be possible!

    Strangely, my husband’s Grandma died last week. She was 95 and ready to go, so it was no shock to anyone. Her sister had died just the week before and she seemed to lose steam after that. But it’s still strange….

    We’ve been through the Alzheimers thing too. My mom’s cousin was diagnosed with the early onset type before he was 50 and it was brutal. He died before 60 with the brain capacity of a 3-year-old. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.

    But I love that you finished your post on a hopeful note. What a great tribute to your husband.

  20. Claire says:

    Lucky, lucky you! Ya done good and he has a million-megawatt smile as well!
    How wonderful to have had GGma and GGpa as such good examples of matrimonial bliss. We haven’t had any grandparents around for a long time and sometimes I’ll think that we should import an elderly person upon occasion cuz they’re so smart about life. My mother lives far away and is not a particularly good grandmother to my children. My example of how Not to be when it is my turn.

  21. My Reflecting Pool says:

    I am sorry for your husband and your loss. What a beautiful love story you have here. Yours and GGMa.

    You two sound like wonderful peas in a pod. And who knew anyone else spoke your language?! What a lucky find for you. 🙂

  22. Tina Rowley says:

    Oh, this is a killer. What beauty. I’m so sorry for your husband, and you, and GGpa. I wish I could import concentrated comfort to all of you.

    Love, loss: oh, the terrifying, gorgeous realness of it all.

    I am delighted for you that you have the sort of love that leaves that kind of devastation in its wake. You will really have lived, won’t you? Is one way to look at it. We’ve got to pick a good way to look at it.

    What a blogger you are. The caterpillar’s kimono.

  23. jen says:

    sigh. this is the love that matters. good for you for finding it.

  24. Dorky Dad says:

    Happy Anniversary! A wonderful post, as always. I’m sorry about your grandparents-in-law, but we can all hope to have a love such as that which lasts so long.

  25. susan says:

    I hate it when you make me bawl! What a wonderful post.

    Happy Anniversary and I’m so sorry for your loss.

  26. Karen MEG says:

    That was a beautiful post, you made me laugh and cry, seriously, almost at the same time.
    You’re such a lovely writer.
    Sorry about the loss of your DH’s Gma. My husband lost his mother to Alzheimers about 7 years ago. Amazing the times that an Alzheimer’s patient can be lucid.
    Happy Birthday, happy anniversary, and many, many more.
    And let the records show, I called a particular bird a craven for years. You know, a cross between a raven and a crow. Still makes my husband laugh.

  27. rak says:

    you bring beauty to even the most difficult of circumstances and it is very evident that you embrace life and find a place for each event in it.

  28. actonbell says:

    Wow, that was fantastic. Happy anniversary! That is a very cute picture of the two of you:)
    And I’m sorry to hear about your husband’s grandparents–that’s a very sad situation.

  29. Em says:

    I’m sorry for your loss. The story of him sitting beside her bed is heart breaking.

    Congratulations on your years together. What a beautiful tribute to your hubby. I wish for you two all 104/101 years and hammock and a beautiful final day together in it.

  30. Maddy says:

    Close unions are what we all yearn for. I’m glad that they enjoyed theirs and I hope a similar path lies ahead for you both.
    Best wishes

  31. frannie says:

    I am so deeply sorry for GGpa and your family’s loss.

    and so deeply glad that you have Groomeo

  32. Jamie says:

    I don’t know what to say.
    That was beautiful.
    You painted such a beautiful picture of his grandparents’ love and your love for eachother.
    Happy anniversary and many blessings to you both…and to GGpa.

  33. Theresa says:

    Tag! You’re it! Come and play.

  34. Voyager says:

    You’ve got a special one, for sure. Happy anniversary.

  35. Open Grove Claudia says:

    I’m sorry for your loss and your husbands. All of my grandparents were dead by the time I was 16 years old. I can’t imagine a life time with them. What a loss.

    Happy Anniversary. I’m so glad he has someone to appreciate him.

  36. Spider Girl says:

    That was, in the same breath, both heartbreakingly poignant and inspirationally romantic.

    I hope my own husband and I are both older than the mountains before we have to say goodbye.

  37. CS says:

    Lovely post. I have lost all my grandparents (including a few steps who I consider “real” grandparents). I miss them.

  38. Wayfarer Scientista says:

    may your union last as long as his grandparents’ did. It sounds like they and you have something special.

  39. HeatherAnn Fragglehead says:

    Oh, poor GGpa. That’s the only drawback I can see to spending your entire life with someone. When you live together for 50+ years, it must be nearly unbearable to lose them, even though you realize that getting old and dying is all part of the deal.

    Your husband sounds like a terrific partner and father to your kids. 🙂 And gosh, if you two aren’t adorable in that picture.

  40. Shari says:

    Sorry to hear that. It made me think about the song “Where’ve You Been” by Kathy Mathea. It was about a couple who have been married a long time and were in separate rooms at a nursing home. He was wheeled in to see her and she missed him so much.

    My thoughts and prayers are sent to you and yours.

  41. Mother of Invention says:

    I am sorry for your and your husband’s loss. I am 53 and my parents are 86 and 88. I have been really lucky to have them for so long, but you always want them longer.
    Your in-laws were a touching and loving couple and your account shapes a lasting vivid image in my mind of love and companionship eternal.

    Hope you guys have many more anniversaries together with truffles!

  42. Ann(ie) says:

    That is the cutest picture of the two of you. Definitely a match made in heaven. Sorry about his Grandma. =( At any age it’s hard to lose them. I lost my first Grandparent in my 30’s, too. Congrats to you, both darlin. You have such a lovely family!!

  43. Princess Pointful says:

    I thought you were going to make me cry again, but I ended up smiling at the end.
    It is such a blessing to know that love like that really does exist.

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